If you stay, stay safe
- During an argument, move to a room with easy access to an exit
- Avoid rooms such as the bathroom, kitchen, or rooms near possible weapons
- Know the quickest routes out of your home. Practice your escape route.
- Develop a plan for your children. Rehearse and practice it with them. Teach them how to dial 911.
- Carry a cell phone. If you do not have one, contact a YWCA advocate. (24-hour hotline, 345-7273, or YWCA Omaha office, 345-6555)
- Designate a code word with your children, family, friends, and neighbors so they know when you are in danger.
- Start a hidden emergency fund.
- Work with a YWCA advocate.
When you leave, stay safe
- Pack a bag and have it ready. Keep it hidden but make it easy to grab.
- Be aware of your surroundings at all times. Use your judgment; trust your gut.
- Carry a cell phone. If you do not have one, contact a YWCA advocate. (24-hour hotline, 345-7273, or YWCA Omaha office, 345-6555).
- Know where you can go and how you will get there in case you have to leave in a hurry.
- If you return, change the locks on your doors. Install outside lighting.
- Work with a YWCA advocate.
Items to take when leaving
- Identification, birth certificates for you and your children
- Social Security cards
- Work permit/Visa/Passport
- School records; medical/vaccination records
- Money, check book, credit cards
- Address book
- Legal papers - divorce/custody/Protection Orders
- Items of sentimental value
Your advocate is always there for you!
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